Self Worth, Core Confidence & Radical Authenticity
THE ACCELERATOR
The BLUEPRINT for Unshakeable Self Worth, Radical Authenticity & Acceptance for a Happy, Fulfilled Successful Life & Business.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF SUCKS.
I say that with the deepest compassion and understanding. But let’s not sugar coat things.
Let’s call a spade a spade. We need to get it out in the open so we can deal with it.
Whatever you call it, low self esteem, low self confidence, self doubt, negative self talk, or even self hate, your relationship with yourself is somewhere between poor and non-existent.
Perhaps it’s obvious. Perhaps you’re outwardly shy, insecure and do everything to avoid being seen.
Or perhaps you’ve learnt to hide it with cleverly manufactured facades. You might even succeed in convincing a few people that you’re the epitome of self confident and self assured. Yet inside you’re riddled with imposter syndrome, inadequacy and insecurity.
Whether overt or covert, your lack of self worth is taking more and more of a toll on your mood, your state of mind and your quality of life.
This can leak out in a whole variety of different symptoms - many of which you may be completely unaware of.
Some people go inward and hide, some people go outward and over compensate.
The person who goes inward is the person who is obviously shy, and who retreats and hides.
The person who goes outward is the person who always has a point to prove, has a chip on their shoulder, always needs to be “right”, and sometimes the loudest person in the room.
They seem like opposite behaviours. But they’re both symptoms of an inner sense of inadequacy and insecurity.
Low self worth insidiously infiltrates your life, in ways that you may not have been fully aware of...
Do these sound familiar?
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You struggle with perfectionism - constantly needing to get everything perfect - not because those are the standards necessary - but because you’re terrified of looking bad, being judged, criticised, or disagreed with.
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You constantly attract people who don’t value you, who disrespect you, or mistreat you.
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You take things really personally. You’re on a hair trigger for feeling “disrespected”.
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You struggle to be fully present with your friends, your loved ones, even your work because your mind is consumed by what people could be thinking about you.
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You waste inordinate amounts of time ruminating over conversations, second guessing what you said, and over analysing what other people said or didn’t say.
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You create huge amounts of stress worrying about future events and conversations.
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You’re unable to set clear boundaries. You’re constantly saying yes when you wish you could say no. You frequently feel unseen, unheard, overlooked, underappreciated, underpaid and taken advantage of.
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You have a huge fear of failure and a fear of being judged and criticised.
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You try to put on a facade of looking perfect, bulletproof and infallible, but you completely lack vulnerability and keep everyone at arm's length because “what if they saw the real you?!”
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You find yourself seeking escape from all this inner turmoil. Some people bury themselves in work because it’s the only place they feel worthy, needed, valuable, and in control. Some people get their sense of escape from food, or alcohol, cigarettes, shopping, or social media.
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You find yourself holding back in key areas of your life because you don’t feel good enough yet. Perhaps you’re holding back from dating. Or perhaps you’ve been stuck at the same level in your career because you’re constantly doubting yourself. Or perhaps you’re constantly sabotaging your health and fitness attempts because you don’t think you deserve it.
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You’re constantly berating yourself, criticising yourself and tearing yourself down. You know it’s destructive, but for some reason you can’t stop.
It’s an incredibly stressful way to live!!
At best you’ve learnt to be “functional” with it...
You grin and bear it and you’ve managed to be “successful” through sheer force of will, but you’re riddled with stress, overwhelm, perfectionism and imposter syndrome.
But more than likely you’re massively selling yourself short.
You’re nowhere near what you could be accomplishing or doing with your life because you’re not backing yourself, you’re not being bold or decisive, you second guess yourself all the time, you’re not setting boundaries, you’re not asking for what you want or going for what you want, you’re not having those difficult yet important conversations, and you’re otherwise sabotaging yourself.
“Just be kind to yourself”... YAWN!
“Just learn to love yourself”
“Be kind to yourself”
“Talk to yourself in a loving way”
“Have more ‘me’ time”
“Deliver on your promises”
None of this has ever worked right?
It’s not that these aren’t valid or well meaning. They are. But they’re incredibly surface level.
It’s kind of like telling somebody in debt to “just earn more money”, or somebody with a binge eating problem to “just stop eating junk food”.
The good news is that Self Worth has a very clear formula.
We simply need to teach you that formula, as well as help you to eliminate the blindspots and the false beliefs that you have accidentally accumulated without even realising it.
Eliminating low self worth is a sequence of discoveries and breakthroughs.
As I’m sure you’re already aware, self worth is unconditional self love and self acceptance. But as we go through life, we accumulate hidden bits of code or software that inhibit our ability to provide that unconditional self love and self acceptance…
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Conditioning like, “I’ve never felt unconditionally loved or accepted for who I am”
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Beliefs like, “If I accept myself as I am, I’ll only end up lowering my standards and losing my motivation to get better.”
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Internal conflicts like, “I have an aversion to being self entitled or lazy. I need to earn my worth.”
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Blindspots like, “I’m not wanted, I don’t matter, I’m not loved” which keep people stuck in an untrue, disempowering identity. These thoughts aren’t just a description of an experience, they literally become that person’s identity, which then becomes self fulfilling… until we completely dissolve the illusion.
Now you have the foundations to install unshakable self worth.
A true sense of inner confidence that is always there for you, whenever you want it and whenever you need it.
- You’ll discover a profound sense of inner peace.
- You’ll discover that you’re able to have genuine unconditional self love and self acceptance AND be resolutely committed to your goals, aspirations and personal growth.
- You’ll finally have the inner stillness that enables you to be fully present. Once all that noise and busyness in your brain has gone - all the over analysing, over thinking, ruminating over past conversations, worrying about future events, worrying about what you look like, sound like, or what people think of you, worrying about making mistakes, failures or getting found out, trying to get everything perfect, and all the incessant chatter in your mind - YOU WILL FINALLY. FEEL. FREE.
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You’ll show up as who you really are, instead of who you think you should be.
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You’ll naturally become a bold, decisive action taker. Not in a forced way, but simply because you’re free to go for what you really want in life without unnecessary fear or self sabotage.
- You’ll set clear boundaries.
- You’ll be able to say no without guilt.
- You’ll find yourself getting more done in less time with less stress and no more overwhelm.
- You’ll find people responding to you in a whole new way.
- You’ll have much deeper, meaningful connections with people because you’ll be so comfortable in yourself that you won’t fear judgement. You’ll be open.
- You’ll find life opening up and surprising you in delightful ways because you’ll finally get out of your own way.
Sound too good to be true?
Here’s what some of our clients had to say:
“I’m really enjoying living each day. I’m putting myself out there, I’m being authentic, my confidence is through the roof, same with my self esteem - no issues at all with self esteem - I’m really happy with everything!” Catherine C, Hong Kong.
"I made friends with myself. I hated myself before. I hated what I had done in the past. I hated who I was, how I looked, everything. I love myself now! My whole outlook on life has changed. I’m excited every morning when I wake up. Now, even when things go wrong, I don’t take them personally. It’s the best investment I’ve ever made in myself." Megan M, USA.
“I am in this incredible place where I can say, I really, really like myself, right now as I am, with no conditions and no “but’s” and I have never been able to say that in all of my life so far.” Julia R, Germany.
“That idea of radical acceptance has completely changed me, and that was something I had known about before in my life, but it applied here and there, it was not an every day new way of operating. I am feeling really proud of myself and happy with myself, and I love myself in a way that I hadn’t before this.” Kelly W, USA.
“One of the big things I gained out of the programme was having trust in myself. I remember saying to Rachel, I don’t know how to trust myself… and now I do. One of the things that has been really great is that at work I’m a manager, and I’m able to speak up and speak my mind in meetings and I didn’t have the confidence or the trust in myself to do that before, but I do that regularly now. My boss even noted in my last evaluation how much she appreciates me speaking up and speaking my mind and giving my guidance, and being a check on her sometimes, so that’s pretty awesome!” Christine K, USA.
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Self Study Program for BOOSTING CONFIDENCE & SELF WORTH!
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Here is what you get access to:
Instant Access to all 5 Modules with 15 audio trainings in this self study program. Lifetime access, go at your own pace.
- Your breakthrough and personal transformation will happen in two ways:
- Firstly the breakthroughs that come from a completely new understanding, a completely new perspective, and from uncovering the blindspots, false beliefs, and subconscious limitations that you didn’t even know were driving you at the subconscious level.
- Secondly, from the practical exercises which are designed to rewire your brain at a much deeper level. These are the breakthroughs that come - not from intellectual understanding or the accumulation of knowledge - but from the deep transformative experience of doing these exercises.
- Demystify self worth and learn what it is, and what it isn’t. Discover the trap that we all get caught up in, and why most people never break free.
- Discover the 3 distinctions that will set you free. There are three key false beliefs that keep people stuck in a perpetual cycle of low self worth. You will uncover those blindspots and reveal the undeniable truth - which causes those false beliefs to dissolve, and sets you free.
- Eliminate and resolve the blocks, the resistance, and the internal conflicts such as:
- “If I accept myself as I am, I’ll only end up lowering my standards and losing my motivation to get better.”
- “I have an aversion to being self entitled or lazy. I need to earn my worth.”
- “I’ve never felt unconditionally loved or accepted for who I am, so therefore I don’t deserve it and don’t know what it feels like.”
- Train your brain and your nervous system to FEEL unconditional self love and self acceptance - not just in a way where you understand it intellectually - but in a way that enables you to feel it emotionally and wholeheartedly.
Here is what life will be like after!
Once we’ve revealed, and broken free from the blindspots and false beliefs that kept you stuck in low self worth, and resolved all that old conditioning, we can then install NEW habits and new programming, such as:
- How to be authentic and show up as the real you, instead of who you think you should be
- How to show up with REAL confidence and self assurance, instead of using tactics to fake confidence or wear a mask
- How to set boundaries and say no without guilt
- How to be kind to others without sacrificing your own needs, self love and self care
- How to be assertive and unapologetic whilst still remaining respectful
- How to speak up for yourself, stand up for what you believe in, and have difficult conversations, without being held hostage to the fear of being judged, criticised or disliked.
- How to walk into any room and be so comfortable in your own skin that you’re able to be relaxed, fully present, and give people your undivided attention instead of worrying about yourself, what you look like, what you sound like, and what people think of you.
- How to evolve and upgrade your core sense of identity, and how to ensure that your external behaviour remains congruent and consistent with your core identity.
AND SO MUCH MORE!
Trusted, Experienced, Results Driven.
David Godfrey is an author, international speaker, peak performance coach and specialist in emotional and behavioural change for entrepreneurs and business owners..
He has extensive experience spanning nearly two decades navigating complex mental and emotional struggles, including chronic stress/burnout, chronic fatigue syndrome, disordered and compulsive eating, phobias and addiction.
David guides clients on a path to eliminate their blindspots and subconscious limitations, enabling them to embrace their best selves effortlessly and excel as leaders.
David and his wife Rachel run Chase Life Consulting and reside in the UAE with their two young children.